Although, my wife and I were not going to be married in our local church; we decided to take advantage of their free pre-marital classes. The group setting courses were very interactive and informal. Many of the speakers transparently discussed the failures and victories in their marriage. This fostered a comfortable atmosphere which led to honest feedback and in-depth discussions.
One of the speakers was an obviously fit, middle aged man. I immediately noticed his dress attire, which consisted of blue jeans, gym shoes, and a button shirt. As bad as it sounds, I also noticed that his clothing were not popular name brands. At this particular church, the staff generally always was overwhelmingly presentable. It wasn’t that his clothing was unprofessional, but it was the fact that it differed from everyone else.
When he walked to the podium, I internally fought my narrow-mindedness. I was well aware that it was rude to judge a man based on his appearance. His subject was family finance. The passion he exuded, promoted me to become an active listener. The sermon consisted of his favorite financial exhortations along with scriptural references. All of the suggestions were extremely reasonable and refreshing, but his last proposal ‘raised some eyebrows’. “Do your best to live on one (whether husband or wife) income.” My first thought, after he made the remark, was ‘…no wonder you are dressed that way.’ As soon as my wife and I sat in our car, I directly commented on his clothing and one income theory. Six years later and now successfully practicing this financial principle, I realized that specific suggestion was the best marital advice I have received. Good news arrived. Due to not being delivered by a well-known, well dressed, highly charismatic minister, but a conservatively dressed man, I found it difficult to receive.
In accepting Jesus Christ and His ways, one can experience the same emotions. Similar to living on one income, His methods are totally opposite of mainstream views. “It is more blessed to give than receive. The greatest among you will be your servant. Tell the mountain to be cast into the sea without any doubt and it will be done.” When Jesus spoke these words many people surrounding him did not accept His principles. They could not bypass a carpenter’s son considering himself the Son of God. Although, they marveled at his wisdom… the hardening of their hearts blocked God’s blessing of salvation and abundant life. To this date, the same practice is taking place. Yet due to God’s grace, mercy, and patience, He has strategically placed his disciples amongst people who desperately need hope, guidance, and unconditional love.
Life experiences challenged me to accept the one income lifestyle as my life of sin challenged my acceptance of Christ and his principles. The hearing of each caused an internal conflict and produced doubtful emotions. Although, I did not like the ‘how to’; I did like the end-result testimony shared. A sense of urgency to commit was experienced. In both submissions, the harvest has been plentiful. I’m eternally grateful for God’s mercy and patience. His grace is truly sufficient.
The bible states God does not show partiality. So what He will do for me, He will do for you. In today’s time, there are several media outlets, books, magazines, outreaches, ministries, and people expressing their love for Christ. If you live in
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