Long distance running has always been a challenge for me. I’ve had the hardest time meeting my miles, due to lack of enthusiasm and proper planning. Running a 5k race, 10k race, half-marathon, or marathon has been an unattained goal for sometime. With proper training, I’m pretty confident that I can complete a 5k (maybe a 10k) race; however, I have yet to accomplish this goal. Every time, I hear that another co-worker completed a half or full marathon; my level of admiration towards running increases. I continue assuring myself that one day; I will sign up for a race, train, and complete my goal. I guess one day, I will. Until then, I have comforted myself with unfulfilled promises (Ecclesiastes 5:5).
Am I lazy and would hate the training? I doubt it. I love exercising. Long distance running is a different type of physical fitness than my familiar resistance and interval training workouts. However, experience and research assures me that I would be fine. I simply need to decide and start.
The decision is my dilemma. Do I really want to endure the training it takes to run a long distance event? To be successful, I would need to allot an extended amount of time away from my old way of living. This would be sacrificial and uncomfortable. When completing a long distance event becomes my most important physical fitness goal, I will be more apt to accomplish.
Those of you who have completed a 5k (or more) race may ridicule my unmet goal. Thinking to yourself, ‘Really, 3.2 miles! Come on personal trainer… Surely, you can do that!?! ‘Sometimes, I say the exact same things to myself. However, there are so many factors which I allow to hold me back (marriage, children, job, career, and other goals). After identifying all my current life involvement, it would be premature and ignorant to label me as lazy. Clearly, running a marathon is secondary… making it more difficult to achieve.
Luke 14:28 encourages us to ‘sit down and count the cost’ before we begin. ‘Choosing not to’ regarding a major life decision can be costly. Starting and not completing may lower you and others esteem, confidence, and respect. This principle applies to all facets of life from fitness, financial, to relational. Those who have experienced a broken relational promise may unanimously agree that there confidence, respect, and esteem for the involved party (including themselves) deteriorated.
Every vow has a ‘finish line’. When most set out to accomplish a goal, they envision how they will end. Typically, those who finish what they start maintain that mental snapshot until completion. It would be quite strange to witness a 100-yard dash and only 50% of the runners complete. Even weirder, if 5 out of the 10 marathoners saw another race they liked while running their race; then jumped over to the other marathon to complete that race. That would be extremely odd and strange to witness. Although, I believe this is symbolically witnessed everyday.
Determining the importance of your goal and what you will and want to achieve before you start is key. If your goal is not one of the most important factors in your life and you are unwilling to sacrifice until that commitment is fulfilled, biblical wisdom strongly suggests that you should not accept the challenge. From financing a car to marriage to losing 10 pounds, ‘count up the cost’. Take into consideration what it will take for you to meet, maintain, and sustain your goals. Of course, you may begin a journey and realize that it was tougher than you imagined. Examining your expectations versus life demands before committing will greatly increase your success.
God’s word points to the celebration of finishing the race and keeping the faith (2 Timothy 4:7). As it will take faith and determination to achieve and believe you can meet your Godly goals during those challenging days. Envision what you want before you start (Proverbs 29:18). My personal belief (from experience) is most people who are considered lazy and unfocused are not. They have simply not made that ‘department in their life’ a priority. It’s easy to do. Although, you do have an option to refocus by determining the importance of your chosen commitment or goal. If you have yet to decide, this is a good message in helping you realize the importance of accepting any type of commitment. Be sure you can afford it. Also, determine your willingness to be a good steward before you agree. Start with taking care of the current blessings (career, home, health, children, and wife/husband). Before accepting other commitments, visualize your end and believe that you can do it. Allow God to earthly and heavenly reward your obedience (Matthew 25:23).
Some challenges are harder to achieve than others. No matter your human capacity, you are unable to overcome. I have faced similar trials. My humble plea and request in sustaining, while thriving, to my commitments to God through Jesus Christ have been a saving grace. I realized that it would take more than positive thinking and accountability. Some challenges are greater than you and others. In these cases, you need something greater for sustainability. This would be the One who God has exalted above all things (Philippians 2:9). Accepting Him is a surefire way that you will achieve all God’s goals for your life. If you are struggling with a promise that God has offered all of mankind, your problem may be your unwillingness to humble yourself and acknowledging that you need help.
Examine yourself. Determine the importance of your goals and commitments. If you have accepted a commitment, accept God’s help to see it through completion. When making goals, be sure that they are godly and you are willing to do all it takes. Know what your obstacles may/will be. God’s will is not for you to be in physical debt to yourself, mental debt to your friends and family, or financial debt to a creditor. The only debt that he allows is love (Romans 13:7-8). Keep the faith and finish the race that you start. The world desperately needs to see it!
If you desire to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
http://www.intouch.org/resources/all-things-are-new/content/topic/how_do_i_accept_jesus_as_my_savior_all_things
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Dancing and Hollering
Growing up in Southern Illinois, I clearly took the beautiful colors of oak and maple trees during the fall season for granted. Now, that I live in north Texas, the gorgeous colors of red, orange, and burgundy are greatly missed. In order to get my ‘fix’, I planted two maple and red oak trees in my yard. They’re currently in infant stage, so they really don’t provide much color during the fall. So in order to possibly see these vibrant colors, we have to go to older neighborhoods or parks. Recently, my family and I discovered a way of witnessing the season change by visiting the nearest lake. It’s populated with native Texas trees which leaves don’t turn from green to yellow like most in the area. On our latest hike at the lake, we accidentally navigated off the man-made course to a rock covered road. Although, we were not in the heart of the heavy wooded park; there were adorable trees aligned along the road.
My children have discovered a new happiness regarding the family hikes. On this particular day, we tagged along with our neighbors and their children. Their son is three years younger than our oldest, Bryce, and three years older than our youngest, Caleb. The three typically have no problems playing together; however, at times, Caleb apparently feels babied and left out. Due to his age, ability to keep up, and the terrain of the trail, we always have a jogging stroller nearby. Caleb mostly desires to walk with everyone, while occasionally announcing his independence of his parents and big brother. As we approached a large hill, I asked if he wanted to ride. He declined. We have noticed that hiking up a hill is not as difficult as descending. The loose gravel and dirt in a downward angle increases the chances of losing your balance. Caleb nicely climbed and completed the hill at the back of the pack. I and others, being ahead, (excluding his close-by mother) suddenly heard an outburst of crying and yelling. As we turned around to see what the fuss was about, we noticed that Caleb had fallen and scraped his leg. As he hollered, he danced, then he hollered and danced some more. His mother nicely placed him on her leg to visually examine his wound. Over his yells and kicking feet, my wife asked for water to cool. As she poured water over the friction, everyone noticed that it was minor and continued to hike. However, Caleb kept crying and momma kept hugging and coddling. Eventually, I had to pick him up, place him in the stroller, and inform him that he was fine. Although, it may appear insensitive; the ‘pushy, get over it’ method had to be applied. Even to a three year old.
I’m sure that all of us have had these moments. We get hurt, we cry and grieve; then, a caring, concerned person comforts and encourages us. Its human nature to assure that someone in pain is okay. However, after a period of time, it’s abnormal and uncomfortable witnessing someone consistently anguishing about a 30 year old occurrence. In the past, I have found it hard to let go of offenses. ‘Playing the blame game’ and reliving failed past pursuits were common. Some of my grievances were initially expected, but after a prolonged period, my self-absorption became downright obsessive and debilitating. Close friends became ‘shoulders to cry on’, while family members and authority figures were fingered as the root cause. Repetitively acknowledging past trauma is extremely unattractive and a perfect way to isolate yourself from healthy people. It’s truly best to let your hurts and disappointments go.
Please believe that I’m not heartless to whatever you or some love one may have endured. Only you and God know how what you experienced has affected you. There should definitely be a period of reflection, mourning, and healing. However, there is a point in everyone’s life where they MUST move forward for healthy overall development. It is required to experience your full potential. How silly would it have been for us to sit on the off-course rocky road for years exclaiming, ‘Oh poor, poor Caleb, he scraped his knee and hurt himself’? When you think about it in this matter, it’s comical. At some point, I’m sure our three year old would’ve eventually recognized that he was physically better and considered it foolish not to move on. Whether he proceeded or not would’ve been his choice. Fortunately for him, he believed and heeded the advice of his loving father. After being picked up, placed in a secure location, and carried for a few hundred yards; he decided to get up and live out new experiences (Psalms 30:5). The sooner, he chose to brush off the pains of his fall; the sooner, he was able to experience his purpose that day.
When healthy people realize you are safe, they move on. Sometimes, surrounding yourself with overly empathetic people can cause you to remain stagnate in life development. Understanding and relating can create a very strong connection. When you decide to move forward, while the other doesn’t; this may create an obvious dilemma. Some disassociations are beneficial for growth. Encountering loving words of accountability is helpful when dealing with hard to ‘get pass’ issues. Practicing the advice of a trusted, observant, and challenging loved one may be what you need. Take a chance and move forward by letting go of what’s holding you back from experiencing ‘what you came here to do’. You may be unaware that you are silently ‘dancing, hollering, dancing, and hollering’, while everyone around you is moving forward with life.
If you don’t have someone who will pick you up, carry you, encourage you, and proclaim you healed; I have just the person for you. As I did for my son, Jesus Christ will do for you. Heed his advice and accept His way and begin the journey of ‘doing what you came here to do’.
If you desire to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
http://www.intouch.org/resources/all-things-are-new/content/topic/how_do_i_accept_jesus_as_my_savior_all_things
My children have discovered a new happiness regarding the family hikes. On this particular day, we tagged along with our neighbors and their children. Their son is three years younger than our oldest, Bryce, and three years older than our youngest, Caleb. The three typically have no problems playing together; however, at times, Caleb apparently feels babied and left out. Due to his age, ability to keep up, and the terrain of the trail, we always have a jogging stroller nearby. Caleb mostly desires to walk with everyone, while occasionally announcing his independence of his parents and big brother. As we approached a large hill, I asked if he wanted to ride. He declined. We have noticed that hiking up a hill is not as difficult as descending. The loose gravel and dirt in a downward angle increases the chances of losing your balance. Caleb nicely climbed and completed the hill at the back of the pack. I and others, being ahead, (excluding his close-by mother) suddenly heard an outburst of crying and yelling. As we turned around to see what the fuss was about, we noticed that Caleb had fallen and scraped his leg. As he hollered, he danced, then he hollered and danced some more. His mother nicely placed him on her leg to visually examine his wound. Over his yells and kicking feet, my wife asked for water to cool. As she poured water over the friction, everyone noticed that it was minor and continued to hike. However, Caleb kept crying and momma kept hugging and coddling. Eventually, I had to pick him up, place him in the stroller, and inform him that he was fine. Although, it may appear insensitive; the ‘pushy, get over it’ method had to be applied. Even to a three year old.
I’m sure that all of us have had these moments. We get hurt, we cry and grieve; then, a caring, concerned person comforts and encourages us. Its human nature to assure that someone in pain is okay. However, after a period of time, it’s abnormal and uncomfortable witnessing someone consistently anguishing about a 30 year old occurrence. In the past, I have found it hard to let go of offenses. ‘Playing the blame game’ and reliving failed past pursuits were common. Some of my grievances were initially expected, but after a prolonged period, my self-absorption became downright obsessive and debilitating. Close friends became ‘shoulders to cry on’, while family members and authority figures were fingered as the root cause. Repetitively acknowledging past trauma is extremely unattractive and a perfect way to isolate yourself from healthy people. It’s truly best to let your hurts and disappointments go.
Please believe that I’m not heartless to whatever you or some love one may have endured. Only you and God know how what you experienced has affected you. There should definitely be a period of reflection, mourning, and healing. However, there is a point in everyone’s life where they MUST move forward for healthy overall development. It is required to experience your full potential. How silly would it have been for us to sit on the off-course rocky road for years exclaiming, ‘Oh poor, poor Caleb, he scraped his knee and hurt himself’? When you think about it in this matter, it’s comical. At some point, I’m sure our three year old would’ve eventually recognized that he was physically better and considered it foolish not to move on. Whether he proceeded or not would’ve been his choice. Fortunately for him, he believed and heeded the advice of his loving father. After being picked up, placed in a secure location, and carried for a few hundred yards; he decided to get up and live out new experiences (Psalms 30:5). The sooner, he chose to brush off the pains of his fall; the sooner, he was able to experience his purpose that day.
When healthy people realize you are safe, they move on. Sometimes, surrounding yourself with overly empathetic people can cause you to remain stagnate in life development. Understanding and relating can create a very strong connection. When you decide to move forward, while the other doesn’t; this may create an obvious dilemma. Some disassociations are beneficial for growth. Encountering loving words of accountability is helpful when dealing with hard to ‘get pass’ issues. Practicing the advice of a trusted, observant, and challenging loved one may be what you need. Take a chance and move forward by letting go of what’s holding you back from experiencing ‘what you came here to do’. You may be unaware that you are silently ‘dancing, hollering, dancing, and hollering’, while everyone around you is moving forward with life.
If you don’t have someone who will pick you up, carry you, encourage you, and proclaim you healed; I have just the person for you. As I did for my son, Jesus Christ will do for you. Heed his advice and accept His way and begin the journey of ‘doing what you came here to do’.
If you desire to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
http://www.intouch.org/resources/all-things-are-new/content/topic/how_do_i_accept_jesus_as_my_savior_all_things
Monday, October 31, 2011
Define Love.
After falling to my knees and repenting of my ways, I heavily began listening to Christian talk radio. It included so much preaching that it became a hobby (listening to preachers ‘preach’). While tuning in one day, I became intrigued and attracted to one minister. He happened to have a church in my current city. I visited and immediately joined. I, not favoring a person’s race when it comes to relationships, found it easy to relate to this same race preacher. His stories were hilarious, applicable, easy to understand, and most importantly, biblically centered. As I grew, I heard and read many things that were challenging to my current lifestyle. Yes, I was a Christian, but giving up some of my most treasured and pleasurable sins were not comfortable, either was it easy. It had been made very clear to me that when I accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, that a helper was included. The helper’s role was to give me the power and discretion to make and maintain decisions based on God’s way of thinking. Also, He would provide clarity without any misunderstanding. Knowing all this made my situation more mentally challenging. Half the time when I would make bad decisions, I clearly knew I was wrong. It simply ‘boiled down’ to… I did what I wanted to do. When approached by other believers about my choices, I defended what I last week was so strongly against. Confusion!
To this day, that hasn’t stopped. I have matured to not verbally defend my sins to others, but there’s still a mental war. Is this good or bad? Well, the bible doesn’t speak much on the matter. Maybe it’s fine. This week it’s good, next week it’s bad. One thing I do know, God has made sin crystal clear to his children that desire to please Him. Adam and Eve were created, but not controlled by God. As God provided direction then, he still does now. They were given the ability and right to have a free will, which is an easy way to identify someone’s love.
The deeper in love you become with a person; the more you freely sacrifice yourself and serve the other. Any good mommy or daddy can relate. You work, you clean, you wash clothes, you read books, and you pray, you comfort, you discipline, your share your bed, you wipe butts (literally), you pay… For what, a child who you continue to give and gave life. The baby/young child/teenager is clearly not able to do the same for you (anytime soon). However, you could care less. This is your child, who you are so deeply in love. These characteristics of love are very similar attributes of the same God I follow and serve. Whether you or your children realize it or not, you are blessed because someone sacrificially loves you.
It’s safe to say that the biggest gift your child could give is being a good representation of you. The joy which comes from a teacher, neighbor, or coach speaking well of your child fosters a healthy pride. Again, it’s probably safe to say, their behavior is a good reflection of their family’s lifestyle, which you help create and provide. Any behavior outside the norm of a family’s tradition brings shame and grief to the entire family. If there’s real love in the family, unhealthy behavior is abnormal and possibly a reflection of rebellion. Your children have the free will to act any way they desire, regardless of how much you love them. Experience teaches rules and guidelines do not promote and sustain healthy compliance. There must be willingness for the child to show love through obedience and a clear realization that bad choices demonstrate disrespect. Maturing in love takes time.
Showing love through obedience has become more of a reality to me with age. I have come to the conclusion, that love is defined by sacrifice and service. When my family is asked how they know daddy/husband loves them, the answer (for me) must be because of his sacrifice and service to me (specifically). As I grow in greater love for my family, I’m confident that will be the resolution (Matthew 23:11). The same goes for my relationship with the Lord. My love and better understanding of Him will help me serve and sacrifice more of myself. My indiscretions will become less and I will become a better representation of my family (John 14:15).
If you desire to be a part of a family, whose Father has already sacrificed and served you (John 15:13); accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. God has already and will continue serving you as a good father. However, it’s your responsibility to accept him as your daddy.
http://www.intouch.org/resources/all-things-are-new/content/topic/how_do_i_accept_jesus_as_my_savior_all_things
To this day, that hasn’t stopped. I have matured to not verbally defend my sins to others, but there’s still a mental war. Is this good or bad? Well, the bible doesn’t speak much on the matter. Maybe it’s fine. This week it’s good, next week it’s bad. One thing I do know, God has made sin crystal clear to his children that desire to please Him. Adam and Eve were created, but not controlled by God. As God provided direction then, he still does now. They were given the ability and right to have a free will, which is an easy way to identify someone’s love.
The deeper in love you become with a person; the more you freely sacrifice yourself and serve the other. Any good mommy or daddy can relate. You work, you clean, you wash clothes, you read books, and you pray, you comfort, you discipline, your share your bed, you wipe butts (literally), you pay… For what, a child who you continue to give and gave life. The baby/young child/teenager is clearly not able to do the same for you (anytime soon). However, you could care less. This is your child, who you are so deeply in love. These characteristics of love are very similar attributes of the same God I follow and serve. Whether you or your children realize it or not, you are blessed because someone sacrificially loves you.
It’s safe to say that the biggest gift your child could give is being a good representation of you. The joy which comes from a teacher, neighbor, or coach speaking well of your child fosters a healthy pride. Again, it’s probably safe to say, their behavior is a good reflection of their family’s lifestyle, which you help create and provide. Any behavior outside the norm of a family’s tradition brings shame and grief to the entire family. If there’s real love in the family, unhealthy behavior is abnormal and possibly a reflection of rebellion. Your children have the free will to act any way they desire, regardless of how much you love them. Experience teaches rules and guidelines do not promote and sustain healthy compliance. There must be willingness for the child to show love through obedience and a clear realization that bad choices demonstrate disrespect. Maturing in love takes time.
Showing love through obedience has become more of a reality to me with age. I have come to the conclusion, that love is defined by sacrifice and service. When my family is asked how they know daddy/husband loves them, the answer (for me) must be because of his sacrifice and service to me (specifically). As I grow in greater love for my family, I’m confident that will be the resolution (Matthew 23:11). The same goes for my relationship with the Lord. My love and better understanding of Him will help me serve and sacrifice more of myself. My indiscretions will become less and I will become a better representation of my family (John 14:15).
If you desire to be a part of a family, whose Father has already sacrificed and served you (John 15:13); accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. God has already and will continue serving you as a good father. However, it’s your responsibility to accept him as your daddy.
http://www.intouch.org/resources/all-things-are-new/content/topic/how_do_i_accept_jesus_as_my_savior_all_things
Monday, October 17, 2011
Rodney, the Whooping Stick
As a kid, I was always consciously aware of my behavior. My parents were consistent in holding me accountable to my actions. If I was disobedient, I was properly dealt with. One junior high day during PE (physical education class), I verbally expressed my displeasures in my performance using ‘HELL’ as a reference. The PE teacher, already noticing a shift in my attitude, was bothered by my word and immediately directed me to the principle’s office. When I arrived, the principle contacted the PE teacher asking why I had been sent. He informed him that I used profanity. After hearing this, he directed me to the guidance counselor. While I was being transferred, I pleaded my case. I can remember expressing to the staff, “…all I said was ‘HELL’”. I knew that it was not appropriate, but come on… really. I heard much worse during gym class and simply couldn’t figure out the fuss over this casual spoken four-letter word.
When I entered the guidance counselor office, he sat me down and began his ‘spill’. I can’t quote verbatim what he said, but I do recall him informing me that my mom (who he knew) would be informed by phone. My main concern was “…tell her I said ‘HELL’ not that I was cursing”; however, I knew it didn’t matter. I was in trouble. Just as I didn’t want him to do, he did. Even now, I can emotionally connect to how upset I was about my behavior. My mother decided to drive (from work) to meet with me and the guidance counselor. While he spoke about the noticeable change in my attitude and my choice of words, I deeply concerned myself with the consequences of my actions. From that day forward, I was never disciplined again for using profanity. Now, I didn’t say I stopped using profanity… I simply discontinued speaking profane around authority.
Now, I’m a parent. I get the opportunity to scare the ‘crap’ out of my children, when they are disobedient or disrespectful. I take great pride in this role. As I know, my parent’s acts of love helped keep me out of much serious trouble as a child, teen, and adult. Obviously, I made a number of serious mistakes, but thankfully God’s grace along with my parent’s accountability established a positive outcome. This biblical formula is a promise which God has given all who choose to follow. The classic verse referred to disciplining children is Proverbs 13:24. Universally known as, ‘spare the rod, spoil the child’; however, the text actually reads ‘He who spares his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him promptly’ (NKJV).
As a young, childless adult, I wanted to spank everyone’s kid for ‘being bad’. The Wal-Mart trips with a kid ‘throwing a fit’ in the isle; because mommy wouldn’t buy them the latest, greatest toy encouraged this thought process. However, after becoming a dad, I quickly realized spanking as a disciplinary tool was not the resolution for every child behavior problem. What I understood as a child was respect for my parent’s authority. I knew that if I was non-compliant to given instructions that I would be disciplined. My mom didn’t ‘miss a beat’ (pun not intended). She was consistent as days become nights and nights become days. If she said this would happen if you disobey, then what she said would happen- happened. Sometimes, my harvest of disobedience included a spanking; other times, there were restrictions placed on my quality of life. This fear of being discipline and held accountable established great reverence for my parents. Today, if they attempted to physically spank me for my bad behavior; it would be slightly awkward. Although, if I were to be rightfully imprisoned… May the Lord have mercy on my conscious regarding the disappointment I would bring my parents. This alone would be my spanking.
About three Sundays ago, I overheard a childcare worker inform a mother that her daughter was hitting other children. The childcare worker encouraged the mom to teach her child that we should use our hands for loving, not hitting. I remembered hearing this before. This saying made such an impression on my wife and I that we purchased a big wooden spoon to use for disciplining instead of our hands. This wooden spoon has become the pun of many jokes and laughs amongst our children and us. He has become such a figure, that we gave him a name and a theme song. The theme song chorus goes a little something like this:
When I entered the guidance counselor office, he sat me down and began his ‘spill’. I can’t quote verbatim what he said, but I do recall him informing me that my mom (who he knew) would be informed by phone. My main concern was “…tell her I said ‘HELL’ not that I was cursing”; however, I knew it didn’t matter. I was in trouble. Just as I didn’t want him to do, he did. Even now, I can emotionally connect to how upset I was about my behavior. My mother decided to drive (from work) to meet with me and the guidance counselor. While he spoke about the noticeable change in my attitude and my choice of words, I deeply concerned myself with the consequences of my actions. From that day forward, I was never disciplined again for using profanity. Now, I didn’t say I stopped using profanity… I simply discontinued speaking profane around authority.
Now, I’m a parent. I get the opportunity to scare the ‘crap’ out of my children, when they are disobedient or disrespectful. I take great pride in this role. As I know, my parent’s acts of love helped keep me out of much serious trouble as a child, teen, and adult. Obviously, I made a number of serious mistakes, but thankfully God’s grace along with my parent’s accountability established a positive outcome. This biblical formula is a promise which God has given all who choose to follow. The classic verse referred to disciplining children is Proverbs 13:24. Universally known as, ‘spare the rod, spoil the child’; however, the text actually reads ‘He who spares his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him promptly’ (NKJV).
As a young, childless adult, I wanted to spank everyone’s kid for ‘being bad’. The Wal-Mart trips with a kid ‘throwing a fit’ in the isle; because mommy wouldn’t buy them the latest, greatest toy encouraged this thought process. However, after becoming a dad, I quickly realized spanking as a disciplinary tool was not the resolution for every child behavior problem. What I understood as a child was respect for my parent’s authority. I knew that if I was non-compliant to given instructions that I would be disciplined. My mom didn’t ‘miss a beat’ (pun not intended). She was consistent as days become nights and nights become days. If she said this would happen if you disobey, then what she said would happen- happened. Sometimes, my harvest of disobedience included a spanking; other times, there were restrictions placed on my quality of life. This fear of being discipline and held accountable established great reverence for my parents. Today, if they attempted to physically spank me for my bad behavior; it would be slightly awkward. Although, if I were to be rightfully imprisoned… May the Lord have mercy on my conscious regarding the disappointment I would bring my parents. This alone would be my spanking.
About three Sundays ago, I overheard a childcare worker inform a mother that her daughter was hitting other children. The childcare worker encouraged the mom to teach her child that we should use our hands for loving, not hitting. I remembered hearing this before. This saying made such an impression on my wife and I that we purchased a big wooden spoon to use for disciplining instead of our hands. This wooden spoon has become the pun of many jokes and laughs amongst our children and us. He has become such a figure, that we gave him a name and a theme song. The theme song chorus goes a little something like this:
Rodney, the Whooping Stick- he’ll spank your butt for fun
when you get to acting up, here he comes…
Rodney, the Whooping Stick…
Rodney, the Whooping Stick!
when you get to acting up, here he comes…
Rodney, the Whooping Stick…
Rodney, the Whooping Stick!
Our children aren’t terribly afraid of Rodney. He typically hangs on the wall between their bedrooms. They are fully aware when he is insight, that it’s time to straighten up. I’m grateful for Rodney. He has become the bad guy. I say this, because I’m aware that some wrestle with holding their children accountable through disciplining. I am far from perfect, but using creative discipline methods have been equally successful and honor God in parenting. According to the bible, using your parental authority to promptly discipline your children shows your love. Do it. Then maybe, one day, like me; your child will look back on their life and be glad they had a parent that held them accountable at an early age. Strive to be someone your children respect. Not only when they’re children, but when they become socially and financially independent adults. This may be the lasting factor of maintaining a line of stability in your and their life.
I know this blog was not much about having a relationship with Jesus, but in many ways it is. God can help you be a more loving parent. According to the bible, the only way you can have a real connection with God is through Jesus Christ. Here’s another opportunity.
I know this blog was not much about having a relationship with Jesus, but in many ways it is. God can help you be a more loving parent. According to the bible, the only way you can have a real connection with God is through Jesus Christ. Here’s another opportunity.
If you desire the power needed to truly change your life, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior by clicking on the link below.
Friday, September 30, 2011
Much More
The month of September was an extremely busy month including a vacation with my wife, celebrating 35 completed years of life, new clients, new job, etc. It was a month of reflecting how blessed I am. Many things, I witnessed and read, provided me with a ‘matter of perspective’. The value of my life and making the most of every opportunity was at the forefront of my mind. Of course, there were some down periods that were exhausting such as typical work-related challenges, children behavior issues, and additional work days. However, ‘Life is good!’ My wife and kids are healthy, alive, and joyful. What more could I ask for? Well, quite honestly… a lot more.
I read that poverty continues to rise in the US. The economy or healthcare is not improving. While vacationing two west coast cities, I saw this first hand. There were several homeless men and women begging for money and acting out in a drunken stupor or from side effects of a street drug. Regardless of their reasons for being in this predicament, seeing them made it real to me. Fortunately (unfortunately?), I live in the rural area of a city. The likelihood of my family or I witnessing the homeless is extremely rare. Some would consider this a blessing, others would not. I’m still in the deciding phase.
How do we begin to correct the many major issues facing our country? I am somewhat clueless. To say, Jesus is the answer is cliché; although, I believe it to be true. There are so many ways to communicate how my life has improved because of accepting God’s way of salvation and abundant life, but what good is this for those struggling. Everyone processes someone’s life story differently. Some critique by proclaiming the ‘silver spoon’ treatment was given, while others instantly connect and grab hold of the possibilities and conditional Promises. Figuring out how to effectively minister to a certain population can be physically and mentally exhausting. Therefore, I’m grateful in knowing that being me through Christ is His way. This truly is liberating.
With this said, I believe, the way that we start tackling some of our country’s problem is by examining ourself. Face your issues and seek help to solve. Then, move on to your immediate family (your husband/wife and kids), parents, siblings, and friendships to your place of employment. Focus on making all these relationships right based on God’s biblical principles. Get a solid grip on life by attaining and focusing on family fundamentals. American history provides examples of too many fallen politicians and Christian ministers who set out to change the world, while their own family and work life was unstable.
Similar to being successful in a team sport, one must focus on the fundamentals before attempting to throw a 60 yard touchdown, dunk a basketball, or hit a home run. As a former team sport athlete, there’s nothing worse than playing with someone (or being the guy) who thinks they are capable, when they clearly are not. Their lack of development and inability to accept their current status always adversely affected the entire team. The same principle applies to each citizen of this country. Do your part first in ‘getting yourself together’! Allow the Bible to be your blueprint for life. Understand and fulfill your role in improving your family, community, and work life.
If you desire the power needed to truly change your life, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior by clicking on the link below.
http://www.intouch.org/resources/all-things-are-new/content/topic/how_do_i_accept_jesus_as_my_savior_all_things
I read that poverty continues to rise in the US. The economy or healthcare is not improving. While vacationing two west coast cities, I saw this first hand. There were several homeless men and women begging for money and acting out in a drunken stupor or from side effects of a street drug. Regardless of their reasons for being in this predicament, seeing them made it real to me. Fortunately (unfortunately?), I live in the rural area of a city. The likelihood of my family or I witnessing the homeless is extremely rare. Some would consider this a blessing, others would not. I’m still in the deciding phase.
How do we begin to correct the many major issues facing our country? I am somewhat clueless. To say, Jesus is the answer is cliché; although, I believe it to be true. There are so many ways to communicate how my life has improved because of accepting God’s way of salvation and abundant life, but what good is this for those struggling. Everyone processes someone’s life story differently. Some critique by proclaiming the ‘silver spoon’ treatment was given, while others instantly connect and grab hold of the possibilities and conditional Promises. Figuring out how to effectively minister to a certain population can be physically and mentally exhausting. Therefore, I’m grateful in knowing that being me through Christ is His way. This truly is liberating.
With this said, I believe, the way that we start tackling some of our country’s problem is by examining ourself. Face your issues and seek help to solve. Then, move on to your immediate family (your husband/wife and kids), parents, siblings, and friendships to your place of employment. Focus on making all these relationships right based on God’s biblical principles. Get a solid grip on life by attaining and focusing on family fundamentals. American history provides examples of too many fallen politicians and Christian ministers who set out to change the world, while their own family and work life was unstable.
Similar to being successful in a team sport, one must focus on the fundamentals before attempting to throw a 60 yard touchdown, dunk a basketball, or hit a home run. As a former team sport athlete, there’s nothing worse than playing with someone (or being the guy) who thinks they are capable, when they clearly are not. Their lack of development and inability to accept their current status always adversely affected the entire team. The same principle applies to each citizen of this country. Do your part first in ‘getting yourself together’! Allow the Bible to be your blueprint for life. Understand and fulfill your role in improving your family, community, and work life.
If you desire the power needed to truly change your life, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior by clicking on the link below.
http://www.intouch.org/resources/all-things-are-new/content/topic/how_do_i_accept_jesus_as_my_savior_all_things
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
The Ultimate Preventable Disease
I just recently read an article that projected that by 2030 that half of the United States of America adult population will be obese. That is so disappointing, because it’s something we can control. Some articles have even proclaimed obesity as being the number one killer of Americans. Simply ‘Google’ obesity and it’s relation to preventable diseases; one will see the direct correlation. The fact that it’s preventable gives us the right to either accept or reject it. Each individual has the freedom to choose. As obesity is only one killer of our bodies, there are so many other allowed avenues of destructive access.
One of the great characteristics of God is the freedom he has given us to decide. As you will hear most preachers say, “He is a gentleman” in his delivery of the Gospel. From my own personal experience, I was never ‘beat over the head’ with his message. Sure there were occasional fire and brimstone messages, but for the most case, it was tenderly conveyed. Through trials and errors, no matter how much I rejected Him; the initial pain due to my opposite choices of his plan were delicate. The immediate consequences were not severe enough to discontinue my rebellious and (spiritually) life threatening behavior. However, if you have read my past blogs, you are familiar with some of the consequences of my disobedience. The sowing of my seeds harvested a fruit, which I didn’t desire to digest. Unfortunately, I had to chew and swallow some. Thankfully, God’s grace was sufficient in allowing a way of escape.
It’s somewhat surreal (now) looking back realizing how silly I was to hold on. I honestly knew that I was slowly desensitizing myself to Godly things. My lifestyle was a direct reflection of my mentality and way of life. I constantly felt out of place in the presence of those who ‘acted’ as I ‘acted’. It was very plain and simple, that life couldn’t healthy continue down this path.
My junior year in college, a girl invited me to a bible study in her dorm. I attended. The college minister spoke. My eyes watered ‘dang near’ the entirety of his message. At completion, he approached me to inquire. I simply informed him that I was not ready. I went back to doing life, as I preferred. Thinking about that, now, is really heartbreaking. Thankfully, I didn’t make any major decisions from this time to the time I gave my heart to God, that drastically traumatized my life. It could have happened, but once again, God’s grace was sufficient.
Obesity is a disease that can be considered a silent killer. However, a person who is obese is easily identified. Most people believe it not to be politically correct to call someone overweight, “fat”. The watering down of America’s culture not to ‘call something what it is’ enables ALL of us with issues to continue having issues (my opinion). This similar approach applies to communicating with people living contrary to God’s way. Sin is a silent killer of our spiritual life. It disconnects us from a holy God. Unfortunately, unlike obesity, sin is not simply recognized by everyone. If you are unfamiliar with God’s word, there is no way you may be aware that you are committing violations to His commandments.
In my role as a personal trainer, I initially discuss with client’s their goals. For most, it’s to lose weight. A body fat percentage test is conducted, which requires measurements of 4 to 7 different sites on a person’s body. The layers of fat directly under the skin entered into an equation offer an approximate measurement of an individual’s pounds of body fat. This percentage determines if you are overweight or obese. If a client is obese, it is my responsibility to tell the potential client of the many preventable diseases connected to having more than 25% body fat for males and 30% body fat for females. Also, they are informed with proper exercise and diet; changes can be made. No one forces them to exercise and eat right. They have a decision that has to be made based on the data which was given.
Similar to me fulfilling duties in my vocational role, God (Holy Spirit) conducts a series of tests. There’s come a point in every woman and man’s life were spiritual guidance is needed. In this case, God finds an avenue to communicate his love to you. Today, his form of communication would be this blog. Your spirit feels an emotional tug like ‘He’s talking to me’. Correlations to your present spiritual state are connected with your future. After you evaluate your potential outcome, you are offered an option for a life of salvation and abundance (John 10:10). God doesn’t force the decision to choose his way of life. It’s your choice.
It’s sad to think that something that we (America) could physically and spiritually prevent may ultimately destroy us. God in his immeasurable love allows us free will to make a choice. With this freedom, human beings have historically rejected his simple wisdom; however, God has never changed his character. As I would encourage a potential client to workout and eat better, I’m encouraging you… choose Jesus! It truly is the better way. Do not be deceived, God will not be mocked (Galatians 6:7). Every knee will one day bow and confess Jesus Christ is King of King and Lord of Lords (Isaiah 45:23). Whether you do it ‘now or later’ is your choice.
If you desire to choose Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
http://www.cbn.com/stepstopeace/index.aspx
One of the great characteristics of God is the freedom he has given us to decide. As you will hear most preachers say, “He is a gentleman” in his delivery of the Gospel. From my own personal experience, I was never ‘beat over the head’ with his message. Sure there were occasional fire and brimstone messages, but for the most case, it was tenderly conveyed. Through trials and errors, no matter how much I rejected Him; the initial pain due to my opposite choices of his plan were delicate. The immediate consequences were not severe enough to discontinue my rebellious and (spiritually) life threatening behavior. However, if you have read my past blogs, you are familiar with some of the consequences of my disobedience. The sowing of my seeds harvested a fruit, which I didn’t desire to digest. Unfortunately, I had to chew and swallow some. Thankfully, God’s grace was sufficient in allowing a way of escape.
It’s somewhat surreal (now) looking back realizing how silly I was to hold on. I honestly knew that I was slowly desensitizing myself to Godly things. My lifestyle was a direct reflection of my mentality and way of life. I constantly felt out of place in the presence of those who ‘acted’ as I ‘acted’. It was very plain and simple, that life couldn’t healthy continue down this path.
My junior year in college, a girl invited me to a bible study in her dorm. I attended. The college minister spoke. My eyes watered ‘dang near’ the entirety of his message. At completion, he approached me to inquire. I simply informed him that I was not ready. I went back to doing life, as I preferred. Thinking about that, now, is really heartbreaking. Thankfully, I didn’t make any major decisions from this time to the time I gave my heart to God, that drastically traumatized my life. It could have happened, but once again, God’s grace was sufficient.
Obesity is a disease that can be considered a silent killer. However, a person who is obese is easily identified. Most people believe it not to be politically correct to call someone overweight, “fat”. The watering down of America’s culture not to ‘call something what it is’ enables ALL of us with issues to continue having issues (my opinion). This similar approach applies to communicating with people living contrary to God’s way. Sin is a silent killer of our spiritual life. It disconnects us from a holy God. Unfortunately, unlike obesity, sin is not simply recognized by everyone. If you are unfamiliar with God’s word, there is no way you may be aware that you are committing violations to His commandments.
In my role as a personal trainer, I initially discuss with client’s their goals. For most, it’s to lose weight. A body fat percentage test is conducted, which requires measurements of 4 to 7 different sites on a person’s body. The layers of fat directly under the skin entered into an equation offer an approximate measurement of an individual’s pounds of body fat. This percentage determines if you are overweight or obese. If a client is obese, it is my responsibility to tell the potential client of the many preventable diseases connected to having more than 25% body fat for males and 30% body fat for females. Also, they are informed with proper exercise and diet; changes can be made. No one forces them to exercise and eat right. They have a decision that has to be made based on the data which was given.
Similar to me fulfilling duties in my vocational role, God (Holy Spirit) conducts a series of tests. There’s come a point in every woman and man’s life were spiritual guidance is needed. In this case, God finds an avenue to communicate his love to you. Today, his form of communication would be this blog. Your spirit feels an emotional tug like ‘He’s talking to me’. Correlations to your present spiritual state are connected with your future. After you evaluate your potential outcome, you are offered an option for a life of salvation and abundance (John 10:10). God doesn’t force the decision to choose his way of life. It’s your choice.
It’s sad to think that something that we (America) could physically and spiritually prevent may ultimately destroy us. God in his immeasurable love allows us free will to make a choice. With this freedom, human beings have historically rejected his simple wisdom; however, God has never changed his character. As I would encourage a potential client to workout and eat better, I’m encouraging you… choose Jesus! It truly is the better way. Do not be deceived, God will not be mocked (Galatians 6:7). Every knee will one day bow and confess Jesus Christ is King of King and Lord of Lords (Isaiah 45:23). Whether you do it ‘now or later’ is your choice.
If you desire to choose Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
http://www.cbn.com/stepstopeace/index.aspx
Monday, August 8, 2011
Getting pass the Past
Winters in the
My first year of graduate school, I dated a white girl who grew up in the Southwest region of the United States. Her high school boyfriend was Hispanic and according to her, he was well accepted by her parents. However, when they discovered their 19 year old daughter was dating an African American, she received a letter in the mail. The note informed her that if she continued to date “A BLACK”, that she would no longer receive any financial assistance for college. I sincerely couldn’t believe her parent’s level of racist audacity and distaste and degrading of a darker class of people. This was my second memorable encounter with direct racism.
I allowed the direct and indirect episodes to take its toll on my (already limited supply of) self-confidence. In time, I chose to use the adversity as motivation to achieve the mockers’ definition of success. Rejection was my fuel. The pursuit of worldly security became an aim. However, my ‘I’ll show them’ attitude proved unhealthy. The harder I worked, the more I ‘sold-out’ to something I quite frankly could care less. My pursuit to prove became the subtle ‘chase of being accepted’. I became a prisoner to what I failed to release. Other’s acceptance was symbolic bars to my self-created prison cell. In order to be free, I had to make a conscious decision to let go of the past remarks and hatred. The process of self-acceptance began.
Discovering what really made me happy, while aligning it to God’s will was painful. A career personality test directed me towards service jobs such as a coach or clergy. My disappointment was the earning potential and the common culture connection to these job titles. I allowed this possible forecast stereotype to distant me from what I enjoyed. The past rejection of ‘not being enough’ along with discovering my talents were a consistent internal struggle. My desire to win this invisible battle was getting the best of me. I discovered no level of success could ever help me attain acceptance by those who prejudged me for uncontrollable reasons.
Accepting myself and God’s will enhanced my Christian faith. Living a Christian lifestyle involves a certain amount of rejection. Although, this is for reasons you can control. In accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior and practicing His teachings, you can expect for some to consider you ‘a little squirrelly’. Choosing not to completely obey God in certain areas, due to fear of rejection is common. The more radical you become about your faith, the more isolation you can expect from the world. It is safe to say my experiences with racism has better prepared me for His future (Romans 8:28). Permitting self-acceptance and forgiveness has been linked to more radical living for Jesus Christ.
If you chose this Life, your feelings will be hurt. You will be judged by the actions of those who came before you claiming the same Name. All the life experiences of the person God calls you to minister will be projected on to you. Assumptions and stereotypes, which may be out of your control, will be associated with you when claiming the Christian faith. Expect it. However, remember that God has given you power to love… power to have self-discipline to live a Christian life (2 Timothy 1:7), no matter anyone’s view or judgment. God has promised that this Power will eventually win the battle (Philippians 2:1-11). You simply ‘stay the course’ and remain faithful in professing and living like Jesus Christ is Lord! He will fight all your battles for you.
If you desire to accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Innocent Bystander?
My relationship with my high school sweetheart was an emotional ‘roller coaster ride’. From my senior year in high school to my senior year in college, we dated and briefly cohabitated. What started out as fun quickly turned into an obviously emotionally and mentally damaging union. After approximately 1 year of dating, I began cheating. I had no cares or thoughts of how my activities were adversely affecting her (or me). One time, a friend informed her of my illicit behavior. When I was confronted, I bluntly denied. My braggadocios ways were gratifying my immediate needs. I was an overconfident and blindly under-achieving kid with selfish and boyish intentions. This behavior wasn’t taught, but was the norm in my environment. I truly didn’t set out to be a bad guy, but allowed it. The experience wounded my self-worth, desensitized my faith in God, and lowered my class level. I was aware that my actions could lead to more serious consequences, but choose to disregard the potential risks. Today, if I was to have the same ignore-ant approach, it would prove detrimental to not only me, but my family.
When God created Adam, he was placed in a thriving environment with few recorded guidelines. The one most remembered is God’s commandment to Adam (before Eve existed) not to eat from a specific tree (Genesis 2:16-17). God’s biblical purpose in positioning Adam in this new land was to maintain it (Genesis 2:15). After these instructions were given and Adam completed his initial assignments, God created a woman to offer help and companionship. Within a short period, Satan decided to mentally attack her by challenging God’s ultimate commandment. Eventually his craftiness overwhelmed Eve to yield and disobey God. After a bite was taken, she passed the fruit to Adam. (Genesis 3:6). Once the realization set, they hid from God and each other. God summoned Adam’s whereabouts discovering him clothed. Quickly realizing Adam’s newfound ‘wisdom’, He asked for an explanation. Instead of Adam offering his wrong doings, he responded claiming Eve as the primary blame for his bad choice (Genesis 3:12).
Today, the same ‘blame shifting’ takes place. God has given all men clear instructions to be overall leaders of their families (Genesis 3:16). I have witnessed many men who’ve allowed Satan to destroy their families and ultimately, their future. Like Adam, men have been called to have dominion, while being fruitful and multiplying (Genesis 1:26, 28). No matter your interpretation of this scripture, the common demonstration of most modern day marriages and families are not a good representation of God’s purpose. If men chose not to lead their own family, how is it possible for him to fully experience God’s will to dominate, multiply, and be fruitful? When Adam choose to be a quiet bystander instead of a verbal and physical protector of his wife and future, the results were costly. Am I saying it was completely Adam’s fault? Absolutely not; however, it’s worth noting that he was present when Eve made this significant mistake. Whether, it be right or wrong; I challenge myself to accept the responsibility for the decisions of my wife and children. It is a husband’s and father’s job to place his wife and children in an environment conducive to having a healthy relationship with God, which promotes a healthy, biblical response to life (Ephesians 6:4, 1 Timothy 3: 2,12). Although, this may not guarantee a biblical response; it will increase the chances for wisdom and discernment.
The current status of the American family is a direct reflection of men not accepting their overall godly position. This passive aggressive approach has caused many women to function in unnatural and quite stressful roles. Choosing to be like Adam by not interfering when our ‘helper’ is confronted with the world’s deceit is not acceptable. It places women and children in roles, which God hasn’t willed. God has anointed men to lead, not to watch their family. Spectators watch and wonder what will happen next. Not tapping into this divine gift of leadership has proven to be a travesty. Failing our children, wives, and mothers (including mother of our children) has lead us in the wrong direction. The bible is filled with disasters starting with a man choosing sins of omission (failing to do what is commanded). If you have fell victim to being passive in godly leadership, please take heed of Adam’s example during his moment of meekness.
The sad truth of my past is recognizing just how lost I was. Being timid in pursuing Jesus Christ increased my unawareness for those who were closest to me. In a conversation years after our break up, my ex disclosed a very serious matter she endured during our relationship. During the entirety of our union, I was clueless. In discovering, I was ashamed to not have helped. The same can happen to anyone choosing not to be active in their love one’s life. Involving yourself to the point of caring, probing, and defending is needed to avoid receiving this type of news. Fulfill the command of God to multiply, be fruitful, and dominate, but first remember, you must protect the ones you love (Titus 1:6-9).
If you would like to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Doing Life!
I’m so appreciative of all the wonderful blessings that come along with serving the Lord with words and actions. A healthy mind, body, spirit, family, and life outlook is good for my soul. As my family continues to thrive and grow, we count the many blessings and few hardships we’ve endured. At this very moment, we are ‘rolling along’. It’s a stable and relaxing season. Unfortunately, the beginning of the year did not begin this way.
February 2011 was, by far, the most difficult month of my life. I underwent a surgery that kept me away from work for 11 weeks. In the first two weeks, I was unable to walk a few steps without pain and strongly relied on ‘pain killers’ for physical comfort. The healing process was crazy painful and unpleasant (to say the least). During my major recovery time, I had two unplanned hospital stays; one time for three days and the other for five days. My mother and mother-in-law visited to help my wife with the children; while she juggled hospital cots to hospital staff. ‘To sum it all up’, it was a really bad experience for us.
Initially, I dealt well with the expected pain; however, the continuous days of discomfort ‘ran its course’. I seriously became somewhat depressed and obnoxiously pessimistic. My wife attempted to console me with scripture, physical and emotional affection, etc. I simply would not allow it to work for me any longer. I allowed my temporary inability to perform normal functions (which I clearly took for granted) take me mentally and spiritually to a place where I hadn’t been for awhile. Speaking of hope for full recovery was challenging. Although, I did not endure the trials which some face during suffering; I could clearly relate to how Job must have felt during his time of turmoil.
According to the Bible, Job was a very prosperous and upright man. He was fervently obedient to God to the extreme of repenting for his children’s possible sins. Job was acknowledged as ‘the greatest of all the people…’ during his time. God was so proud of Job that during one of Satan’s visits; God acknowledged Job’s character. This prompted Satan to allude that Job was obedient due to his prosperity. God, then, granted him limited to full access to Job. During this season, Job’s possessions and family were destroyed and his body was filled with disease and pain. Job was spiritually challenged wondering why he suffered; exclaiming that he had committed no sin worthy of this cause. His wife attempted to plant seeds in his mind to curse God and die; however, Job did not. He did question the Lord regarding his condition to finally receive an answer from God in the form of questions (rhetorical questioning, at that). Once God completed his lecture, Job openly repented in disgust towards his challenging of God’s authority. After he repented, God blessed him twice as much as he had before making for a happy ending to ‘not-so’ happy story. (Job)
First and foremost, based on what the Bible speaks of Job, I’m not near his level of faith and obedience. That is not the message that I’m attempting to convey. Job is a prime example of a good man, who loved the Lord, who happened to experience bad misfortune. The bible doesn’t claim that he had done anything wrong worthy of this trial. If anything, his reverence for God placed him in this ‘testing’ situation.
Christianity is a faith based religion. You do not accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior without faith. It’s spiritually, mentally, and physically impossible. In order to be saved, you must believe that He was the last and only sacrifice for your past and future sins. You must believe and accept that He lived, and then died for your sins. You must choose to follow God’s instructions, as Christ did while on earth, regardless of your situation. For this is what it means to truly be a Christian (child of God). To believe and act in obedience to all of God’s commandments takes faith. The benefit of this type of faith is… it’s the same faith which will carry you through chaos eventually leading to a blessed and prosperous life. Without a doubt, this is one of the many advantages in believing in a God that has given you a Way to have direct access to Him.
Four months since my surgery, I’m ‘back in the saddle’ on a continuous road to full recovery (including spiritual and mental). As God doubled Job’s portion, I believe, he has done the same for me. I’m now better able to mentally connect with those who have physical limitations. The career opportunities that existed before my operation did not fade, but stayed. My quality of life and appreciation for family, friends, and neighbors has skyrocketed. My life did temporarily change, but the overall view and reality of my Christian life never did. God was still in control and my relationship with Him through acts and words supported me. I questioned the reason for the suffering, but never have I questioned the reason for the blessing. I clearly know why I’m blessed. I clearly know why I have the favor of God. Like Job, it’s not because of my earthly works, but because of the promises of God. It’s because I have chosen His way. The seasons of life may change, but thankfully God never will. He promises. (Deuteronomy 30: 11-20)
If you would like to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
http://www.cbn.com/stepstopeace/index.aspx
February 2011 was, by far, the most difficult month of my life. I underwent a surgery that kept me away from work for 11 weeks. In the first two weeks, I was unable to walk a few steps without pain and strongly relied on ‘pain killers’ for physical comfort. The healing process was crazy painful and unpleasant (to say the least). During my major recovery time, I had two unplanned hospital stays; one time for three days and the other for five days. My mother and mother-in-law visited to help my wife with the children; while she juggled hospital cots to hospital staff. ‘To sum it all up’, it was a really bad experience for us.
Initially, I dealt well with the expected pain; however, the continuous days of discomfort ‘ran its course’. I seriously became somewhat depressed and obnoxiously pessimistic. My wife attempted to console me with scripture, physical and emotional affection, etc. I simply would not allow it to work for me any longer. I allowed my temporary inability to perform normal functions (which I clearly took for granted) take me mentally and spiritually to a place where I hadn’t been for awhile. Speaking of hope for full recovery was challenging. Although, I did not endure the trials which some face during suffering; I could clearly relate to how Job must have felt during his time of turmoil.
According to the Bible, Job was a very prosperous and upright man. He was fervently obedient to God to the extreme of repenting for his children’s possible sins. Job was acknowledged as ‘the greatest of all the people…’ during his time. God was so proud of Job that during one of Satan’s visits; God acknowledged Job’s character. This prompted Satan to allude that Job was obedient due to his prosperity. God, then, granted him limited to full access to Job. During this season, Job’s possessions and family were destroyed and his body was filled with disease and pain. Job was spiritually challenged wondering why he suffered; exclaiming that he had committed no sin worthy of this cause. His wife attempted to plant seeds in his mind to curse God and die; however, Job did not. He did question the Lord regarding his condition to finally receive an answer from God in the form of questions (rhetorical questioning, at that). Once God completed his lecture, Job openly repented in disgust towards his challenging of God’s authority. After he repented, God blessed him twice as much as he had before making for a happy ending to ‘not-so’ happy story. (Job)
First and foremost, based on what the Bible speaks of Job, I’m not near his level of faith and obedience. That is not the message that I’m attempting to convey. Job is a prime example of a good man, who loved the Lord, who happened to experience bad misfortune. The bible doesn’t claim that he had done anything wrong worthy of this trial. If anything, his reverence for God placed him in this ‘testing’ situation.
Christianity is a faith based religion. You do not accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior without faith. It’s spiritually, mentally, and physically impossible. In order to be saved, you must believe that He was the last and only sacrifice for your past and future sins. You must believe and accept that He lived, and then died for your sins. You must choose to follow God’s instructions, as Christ did while on earth, regardless of your situation. For this is what it means to truly be a Christian (child of God). To believe and act in obedience to all of God’s commandments takes faith. The benefit of this type of faith is… it’s the same faith which will carry you through chaos eventually leading to a blessed and prosperous life. Without a doubt, this is one of the many advantages in believing in a God that has given you a Way to have direct access to Him.
Four months since my surgery, I’m ‘back in the saddle’ on a continuous road to full recovery (including spiritual and mental). As God doubled Job’s portion, I believe, he has done the same for me. I’m now better able to mentally connect with those who have physical limitations. The career opportunities that existed before my operation did not fade, but stayed. My quality of life and appreciation for family, friends, and neighbors has skyrocketed. My life did temporarily change, but the overall view and reality of my Christian life never did. God was still in control and my relationship with Him through acts and words supported me. I questioned the reason for the suffering, but never have I questioned the reason for the blessing. I clearly know why I’m blessed. I clearly know why I have the favor of God. Like Job, it’s not because of my earthly works, but because of the promises of God. It’s because I have chosen His way. The seasons of life may change, but thankfully God never will. He promises. (Deuteronomy 30: 11-20)
If you would like to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, please click on the link below.
http://www.cbn.com/stepstopeace/index.aspx
Friday, May 13, 2011
Stop mocking me!
My wife and I were being playfully silly the other day, while driving to pickup a pizza. Our two children, ages 9 and 3, were in the backseat entertaining themselves. I’m not quite sure what my wife and I were talking about that was so funny, but I burst out with laughter. After I stopped giggling, we continued our discussion. Within minutes, we noticed our children laughing out loud. Of course, we tuned in to see what was so funny. My 3 year old decided that he would imitate my laugh. We all thought this hilarious, that a toddler without encouragement would choose to make fun of his dad’s laugh. A few days after the incident, I found myself listening to how I sounded when I genuinely laughed. First, I noticed that my toddler did a really good job of mocking me. Second, I realized that my mannerisms and tone were very similar to my dad’s.
As far as I can remember, my father was always working. There were no off days. His full-time job was with a major railroad company, while part-time… he worked odd jobs to earn additional income. From cutting wood to hauling hay, my dad gave meaning to the street term of ‘hustle’. This left little time for involvement in my childhood activities, as it was not a necessity for surviving. My father became a dad at the age of 18. He and my mom were college students with nothing, when I came into this world. I never knew the seriousness of their struggle until one day while in my hometown visiting, we surfed through television channels. We came across ‘The Pursuit of Happyness’. I asked my dad, if he had ever seen it, hoping he hadn’t… so we could watch it. He stated that he had, but had a hard time completing it, because of its similarity to his own life. This sparked my interest, so I inquired. My mom happened to be in the room when I asked questions, so they (both) briefly shared their beginnings. I was somewhat amazed they initially struggled so badly financially. After hearing the story and ‘connecting the pieces’, I better understood why my dad consistently worked so hard in his younger adult years.
Although, my dad wasn’t present for all my tee ball or basketball games, he did make time to involve me in his life. Starting in my pre-teen years, I became heavily involved with his odd jobs. Working with a group of adult-aged blue collar men encouraged me to stay in close proximity to my father. During these limited times, I unconsciously picked up many of his characteristics and ethics. Little did I (or he, I believe) know, how his impression as a provider would affect my life. King Solomon experienced the same. His father, David passed on some of his traits. Although, David was a man that had a heart which pleased God; he fell prey to adultery. Solomon was conceived from this experience (2 Samuel 11). Throughout Solomon’s adult life, he obviously was not content with his wife (or wives) leading him to having several wives. In this pursuit, his conquest would lead him to turning away from God in his old age (1 Kings 11:1-4). Whereas, David choose to fall for another man’s wife; Solomon surpassed his father’s transgression by marrying several women who were not part of God’s will for his life.
It’s safe to say that children do not always know what is best for them. As an adult, you know that eating an entire cake as one meal is bad for your health. Most toddlers are not aware of food’s health benefits. Serving them only baked dessert for dinner may be a dream come true. Generally speaking, their concern in devouring a meal is not nutritional, but enjoyment. What is good in moderation is typically not healthy in excess. In David’s case, his sin of adultery possibly provided an opportunity for his son to excuse himself towards his selection of and appetite for women. No parent should have to mentally debate whether their actions led to their child’s demise. The opportunity to ‘do what you want to do because you’re grown’ is plentiful. Just know that your actions are seeds being planted in the mind of your children. It’s amazing to think that one corn kernel can produce enough cobs to feed a family. The same principle applies in regards to influencing your children. A parent consistently opposing to God’s will is the fertilization of future sins your children may commit. There are many stories in the bible and world that demonstrate this throughout the history of man. It started with Adam and Eve’s bad decision, and then manifested itself into all the God opposing traits our world experiences today.
I’m by far am NOT the perfect model of a father. Unfortunately, my children will have to make their own decisions about the error of their dad’s ways. My prayer is that God will gracefully allow me time to not adversely affect my children’s spiritual walk. I humbly ask the Lord to help me live the life He has called me to live to eliminate any opportunity for generational curses. I believe everyone should do the same. Your areas of deficit that causes anxiety when mentioned will bother you more if you allow it to carry over to your children. Allow the One who has the power to truly change you... into your heart. Trust me; He can change your life. It’s only too late if you are not living. Even if you are older with teenage or adult children, the servant attitude of Jesus Christ (Matthew 20:28) IS the greatest example that you can provide for your children.
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Sunday, May 1, 2011
So close, Pt. 2
In one of my unsuccessful dating attempts, I became upset about an abrupt break of communication. While expressing these happenings to my neighbor, she ridiculed me for pursuing this girl. It really upset me to the point of not wanting to speak with her anymore. There were past occasions which I could have mocked her for bad choices; however, I never did. So, I thought her initial reaction was immature and unfair. In our next few conversations, I choose to be distant and superficial. Within a week or so, I received a sincere apology by email. I distinctly remember how appreciative I was for this simple act of kindness and humility. A genuine ‘sorry’ from an offensive action, that wasn’t relayed as insulting, meant much (Proverbs 15:1). Her modesty and continuous maturity helped open my heart for more of what God had in store.
As we both desired the same in a committed relationship, our wishes unknowingly drew us closer. My reservations and prejudices deteriorated as my neighbor shared her story. In her actions and words regarding her son and son’s biological father, I saw wisdom. I watched her deal with the distant and recent past by seeking the Lord through church attendance and Christian fellowship. There was no bitterness about the past, but hope for the well-being of her child. This, I must say, was extremely mature and attractive for someone of her age. I was being presented with an opportunity.
As I had always expressed to my neighbor, that she should never date anyone who didn’t’ desire to be a dad; I was unsure of my future in this role. I always felt uncomfortable around little kids (still do to this day); however, I knew that this was an opportunity that if not accepted would be greatly regretted. I fearfully, cautiously, and prayerfully took the ‘plunge’. Within a month, we grew significantly closer and realized that we did have much more in common. The little guy did provide some challenges, but my neighbor trusted and allowed me to father. Her permission to share parental authority frightened her, but her faith in her new boyfriend proved worthwhile. One day, while Bryce, her, and I watched television, they fell asleep (as they both so easily do). As they slept, I felt the need to pray about my new role. God revealed to me, during this time, that my future wife and son were lying in my bed. My love rapidly grew for them and eventually we married. Who would have ever imagined that God’s gift of marriage for me would include a child? I did not.
The purpose of me telling this story is to acknowledge a significant time in my life that I was fearful, yet acted in faith after a godly revelation. There were plenty of opportunities for me to be doubtful. From my wife’s and I friends, family, and co-workers questioning our dating relationship to fears of the unknown, I could have justifiably not accepted the challenge. Fear of becoming a father or the possibility of dealing with another man in my marriage was my initial concern. However, I did not allow this fear to discontinue our relationship and thank God that I didn’t. As I truly believe, that my wife and oldest son have blessed me in ways that I will never be able to repay them. The Lord was sure of what I needed and in (both of us) seeking Him, He provided a good gift for an unmet and natural desire. As the rainbow was to Noah (Genesis 9:8-17), my wife is to me a symbol of God’s faithfulness and trustworthiness. With all this said, I still must confess that I do not completely trust Him.
In reading stories of the grumbling, disobedient, and fearful Old Testament Israelites, I use to be in awe with disbelief that after all the miracles witness; they could be so blind. Now, I realize that I’m similar in so many ways. Day after day, I witness God’s reliability yet I ask for signs and wonders in my areas of disbelief. This shouldn’t be. The reality is my faith is weak. I have grown, but I have not arrived. As God revealed to me in prayer about my future as a husband and father, He has also revealed other promises. In several ways, I’ve allowed the cares of this world to stagnate me from growing deeper in obedience and ministry. God’s word says one gains faith by hearing the Word of God (Romans 10:17). With this said, I know that I’m ‘so close’ to making a move which will make people talk, as they did the day we announced our marital plans. It excites me.
The relevance to you is this… God will speak to you, if you seek His will. Having the courage to fulfill His will is a ‘different story’ (Numbers 13). There are many people who know what they should do, but they are not doing. Like me, their faith is weak and they need to continually hear or read the Word of God (Bible). As we grow in our understanding of God’s will (which is His Word), we will begin to fulfill purpose in unconventional ways. As your belief in God grows, being obedient to His unction will become involuntary. You realize there’s eventual blessings connected to your behavior. Please understand my heart in expressing my own short comings. I believe you are ‘so close’ to attaining a gift God has for you. The hold up may simply be a matter of your complete submergence into His will. As my marriage was for me, it will take you first to give in order to get. Allow my irregular beginning to a joyful life as a husband and father inspire you to believing that God is able to bless you in unusual ways. Remember, it first starts with you asking, seeking, and knocking (Matthew 7:7) on His provided doors of opportunity.
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Thursday, April 21, 2011
So close, Pt. 1
After dropping out of seminary, I moved back to Amarillo, Texas to live with my best friend and his mother. Within 3 months, he and I decided to get an apartment. When we moved into our apartment, one of our neighbors was a single mother of an infant ‘Keebler-elfish’ looking boy named Bryce. My roommate knew her, as they use to work with each other at a restaurant. As matter of fact, he stated that she use to flirt with him and he with her. Also, he warned me to be careful around her. There was nothing horrible particular that he said about her; however, his discernment from what he knew of her and I obviously made him uncomfortable.
As months passed, my new neighbor and I periodically chatted outside. Typically, when I would get my mail; she was on her balcony talking on the phone or playing with her son. The longer I lived by her, the more I was aware that I was physically attracted to her. So I became even more careful. In the back of my mind, I knew my roommate, whom opinion I held in high regard, didn’t trust her. My prior dealings with dating relationships encouraged me to trust the discernment of a close Christian friend (Proverbs 27:17). In my visits with my neighbor, my friend’s inclination was unfortunately confirmed. As, there were several ‘red flags’. Initially, I told myself that I would never date a single mother for all the worldly reasons most men claim; but with the brief interactions, it became apparent that we were unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14) in several areas. Although, the longer I lived as her neighbor, the harder it became to consistently guard my heart (Proverbs 4:23).
Time allowed for our relationship to grow, while we individually matured. After a year or so, she became the ‘go-to’ girl in discussing my casual dating relationships, as I to her. One of my primary concerns for her was dating anyone who didn’t desire to be a dad to her son. Telling her this, while remaining unbiased was surprisingly easy. Due to her being a single mother, I didn’t ever cross the friendship line by kissing her or becoming intimately physical. This (I must say) was very uncommon for me during that stage in my life to a woman whom I found physically and emotionally attractive. The fear of emotionally abandoning her and her son, if the dating relationship failed, haunted me. Thankfully, this was the additional motivation I needed to stay pure in my relationship with her, which really allowed us to become/be friends.
After completing graduate school, I decided that I would actively pursue a wife. I was ready to love the way God intended a man to love (Ephesians 5:25). This drove me to begin heavily praying for a wife, which caused my relationship with God to grow. In hindsight, it’s apparent that my heart became more open to God’s way of blessing. The dating scene was not for me. I was greatly unsuccessful. In a 6 month period, I pursued three women. Needless to say, none valued what I valued; therefore, I always felt unappreciated (they may have felt the same). During these frustrating times, I would speak with my neighbor and it became evident that she truly appreciated what I had to offer. Her valuing me opened the door for me to sincerely value her. My neighbor had begun spiritually pursuing the same path. This allowed us to emotionally and spiritually connect in undeniable ways.
As months passed, my new neighbor and I periodically chatted outside. Typically, when I would get my mail; she was on her balcony talking on the phone or playing with her son. The longer I lived by her, the more I was aware that I was physically attracted to her. So I became even more careful. In the back of my mind, I knew my roommate, whom opinion I held in high regard, didn’t trust her. My prior dealings with dating relationships encouraged me to trust the discernment of a close Christian friend (Proverbs 27:17). In my visits with my neighbor, my friend’s inclination was unfortunately confirmed. As, there were several ‘red flags’. Initially, I told myself that I would never date a single mother for all the worldly reasons most men claim; but with the brief interactions, it became apparent that we were unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14) in several areas. Although, the longer I lived as her neighbor, the harder it became to consistently guard my heart (Proverbs 4:23).
Time allowed for our relationship to grow, while we individually matured. After a year or so, she became the ‘go-to’ girl in discussing my casual dating relationships, as I to her. One of my primary concerns for her was dating anyone who didn’t desire to be a dad to her son. Telling her this, while remaining unbiased was surprisingly easy. Due to her being a single mother, I didn’t ever cross the friendship line by kissing her or becoming intimately physical. This (I must say) was very uncommon for me during that stage in my life to a woman whom I found physically and emotionally attractive. The fear of emotionally abandoning her and her son, if the dating relationship failed, haunted me. Thankfully, this was the additional motivation I needed to stay pure in my relationship with her, which really allowed us to become/be friends.
After completing graduate school, I decided that I would actively pursue a wife. I was ready to love the way God intended a man to love (Ephesians 5:25). This drove me to begin heavily praying for a wife, which caused my relationship with God to grow. In hindsight, it’s apparent that my heart became more open to God’s way of blessing. The dating scene was not for me. I was greatly unsuccessful. In a 6 month period, I pursued three women. Needless to say, none valued what I valued; therefore, I always felt unappreciated (they may have felt the same). During these frustrating times, I would speak with my neighbor and it became evident that she truly appreciated what I had to offer. Her valuing me opened the door for me to sincerely value her. My neighbor had begun spiritually pursuing the same path. This allowed us to emotionally and spiritually connect in undeniable ways.
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Beat Cairo!
Every year around this basketball craze time known as March Madness, I have this particular numbing feeling about my past. Growing up in small town in Southern Illinois, high school basketball was extremely important and popular. It was (is) similar to high school football in rural Texas, which inspired the movie and television series, Friday Night Lights. With there not being much for entertainment, sports in small towns provide a sense of entertainment, worth, and ownership. As a child and teenager, I subliminally and quickly learned in order to be noticed, basketball was the stage.
My freshman year in high school was fortunate. I was part of a great varsity basketball team that won many games and was filled with extremely talented players. The competition from junior high to varsity basketball in one year provided many learning opportunities. As a junior high athlete, our basketball team only lost one game during our eighth grade season. Unfortunately, it was in the state tournament causing us to play in a consolation round earning third place. Going into high school, our young team didn’t know or ever expect to lose; we were clearly winners.
As in most metropolitan or rural areas, there’s consistently a dominant team. Whether it is baseball, football, basketball, etc. - everyone knows who’s good in ‘what’. This sets the expectations for matchups and favorites to win. In my high school basketball days, the Cairo Pilots were the team to beat. In junior high, I did not know this. I may have heard it from my father and his friends, but no impression was made. High school was a different story. When our team faced Cairo, there was a sense of uncertainty. The disbelief of a victory was evident. No matter how great our season accomplishments; our team always had to beat Cairo to proceed any further. The fear of a season ending due to a playoff loss to Cairo was the ‘elephant in a room’. No one would say aloud that it would end this way, but three of my four high school years unfortunately did. Our town’s mentality of Cairo carried over to our court performance. As talented as we were, from our sophomore to senior year, we never defeated the Pilots.
In the old testament, God promised his chosen people, the Israelites, their own land after releasing them from Egyptian slavery. His grace and plan for His people extended beyond their belief system. Based on scripture, it’s safe to say that the Israelites found it hard to internalize their future. Their consistent complaining and disobedience seems almost surreal when reading about their journey. God consistently revealed himself in many ways which should have established an undying faith in His ability and love. Unfortunately, this was not the case. They allowed their past experiences to adversely affect their future. When there time came for them to explore the Promised Land, they failed miserably by reporting the challenges instead of the opportunity. Due to their disbelief, the bible states that God didn’t allow the older generation to inherit His promise (Deuteronomy 1). In reading the entire book of Numbers, it’s clear that God is faithful, graceful, and merciful. However, no matter His attributes; His chosen people still fell short in believing His promises. Their opportunity to receive God’s gift had arrived and passed not because of God’s inability but because of their disbelief and fear.
Obviously, one of the biggest regrets I have as an athlete is never beating the ‘Pilots’. As an adult, I realize what my high school team’s belief in its God given ability to win and winning could have done for my small town and its future mentality. Similar to the Israelites, I only saw the obstacles we faced; however, now, I see the opportunity. Like the unfaithful generation described above, I’m arguably convinced that we missed our chance due to similar characteristics (disbelief and fear).
Today, one of the greatest motivations I have in making my life count is reflecting on my past. Unfortunately, I believe we all have missed opportunities. There are not too many adults whom I have deep conversations, which do not express a past regret and its effects on their life. As human beings, we mostly do our best to ‘make the best’ out of life current situations. Fortunately for us all, God is a redeemer and for those who love the Lord (John 14:15), he has promised to work out all things for good (Romans 8:28). The bible has provided us with many examples of God’s grace. Today, His grace still lives and thrives in our everyday culture. As individuals, we all must confess that we fall short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). Fortunately for us, God has made a way of escape through the acceptance of Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. God’s promises do not start without accepting His plan. You can read the bible all you desire, while quoting and shouting scriptures over your situation. Without the acceptance and following of Jesus Christ, your situation is voided, due to your initial disbelief. One day, the opportunity to ‘beat Cairo’ and ‘enter the Promised Land’ will pass. During your NOW moment, you have to accept His plan for your life. It all begins with accepting His son, Jesus Christ. If you have already done this, then there are other things in your life that you must face. God desires us to continue growing and becoming more like Him. The whole purpose of this abundant life He promises is not looking back and having regrets. I want us all to accept God’s best for our life.
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Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Ouch, but Thank You!
It's 10:56 PM and I am currently taking a sitz bath, while my wife types this blog. One of the things I fear the most has come upon me, on February 11th, I had a hemorrhoidectomy. Over the last 10 years I have "successfully" managed my hemorrhoids with the hopes and fears to not have surgery. It was more fears that kept me from getting the surgery done when needed. Needless to say, I finally had to have the surgery.
Over the last 5 days, I have been for the most part, bedridden. I am a very active guy and being in the bed and the house (days on) is comparable to being in prison. The post-op pain has been unbearable at times, but for the most part tolerable and typical. The most humbling part is the unexplainable and painful bowel movements which require my wife's assistance. I tell you this all, not for you to feel sorry for me, but to be transparent as usual.
These five days have given me time to do a lot of thinking. Some of the things that I have thought about are a few of the most recent family deaths and the emotions it caused loved ones. Over the last 3 years, my mother-in-law has lost her parents to cancer. One of the things I continue to consider is the endured pain when they knew that they were not going to fully recover. Also, I think about my mother-in-laws emotions as she watched her mother and father suffer. As ashamed as I am to say, I really didn't understand then, like I do now, what it's like to be desperate and in pain plus watching somebody you love sustain a season of pain.
Through this recovery time, I feel that God is teaching me valuable lessons. A few of course I have already aforementioned, but the others have not quite come so clear. Pain has a way of making you internalize what is really going on with you emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It pulls things out of you that need to be ‘said and done’. I hope that in this time of recovery I will grow significantly closer to the Lord. As a matter of fact, I know I will.
I hope that this brief, abnormal "Seminary DropOut'" blog will encourage you to deal with those things that need to be ‘said and done’. Calling on the name of Jesus and simply speaking his name repetitively has literally brought comfort to my body. When the pain is so bad and you don't have a clue what to do, call on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. He will comfort you, He will teach you, and He will give you the insight needing to stand.
I ask for your prayers in this time of recovery and I ask that you will rejoice with me knowing the revelation that God is my source of healing and restoration. There is one passage that I want to post that has given me hope in this time. May God bless you!
Isaiah 58
True and False Fasting
1"Cry aloud; do not hold back;
(A) lift up your voice like a trumpet;
(B) declare to my people their transgression,
to the house of Jacob their sins.
2(C) Yet they seek me daily
and delight to know my ways,
as if they were a nation that did righteousness
and did not forsake the judgment of their God;
they ask of me righteous judgments;
they delight to draw near to God.
3(D) 'Why have we fasted, and you see it not?
Why have we humbled ourselves, and you take no knowledge of it?'
Behold, in the day of your fast you seek your own pleasure,[a]
(E) and oppress all your workers.
4Behold, you fast only to quarrel and to fight
and to hit with a wicked fist.
Fasting like yours this day
will not make your voice to be heard on high.
5(F) Is such the fast that I choose,
(G) a day for a person to humble himself?
Is it to bow down his head like a reed,
and to spread sackcloth and ashes under him?
Will you call this a fast,
and a day acceptable to the LORD?
6"Is not this the fast that I choose:
(H) to loose the bonds of wickedness,
to undo the straps(I) of the yoke,
to let the oppressed[b] go free,
and to break every yoke?
7Is it not(J) to share your bread with the hungry
and bring the homeless poor into your house;
when you see the naked, to cover him,
(K) and not to hide yourself from your own flesh?
8(L) Then shall your light break forth like the dawn,
(M) and your healing shall spring up speedily;
(N) your righteousness shall go before you;
(O) the glory of the LORD shall be your rear guard.
9Then you shall call, and the LORD will answer;
you shall cry, and he will say, 'Here I am.'
If you take away(P) the yoke from your midst,
(Q) the pointing of the finger, and speaking wickedness,
10(R) if you pour yourself out for the hungry
and satisfy the desire of the afflicted,
(S) then shall your light rise in the darkness
and your gloom be as the noonday.
11And the LORD will guide you continually
and satisfy your desire in scorched places
and make your bones strong;
and you shall be(T) like a watered garden,
like a spring of water,
whose waters do not fail.
12(U) And your ancient ruins shall be rebuilt;
you shall raise up the foundations of many generations;
you shall be called the repairer of the breach,
the restorer of streets to dwell in.
13(V) "If you turn back your foot from the Sabbath,
from doing your pleasure[c] on my holy day,
and call the Sabbath a delight
and the holy day of the LORD honorable;
if you honor it, not going your own ways,
or seeking(W) your own pleasure,[d] or talking idly;[e]
14then you shall take delight in the LORD,
(X) and I will make you ride on the heights of the earth;[f]
(Y) I will feed you with the heritage of Jacob your father,
(Z) for the mouth of the LORD has spoken."
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